Release Points

This week, I've had the great opportunity to have a few conversations with parents regarding their kids as they step out into new adventures. This is often a difficult process for us as parents. We know we have to let go, but want to tighten our grip at the same time. 

These conversations reminded me of Dennis Rainey's illustration of archery release points.  I first heard Dennis use this illustration at a Family Life Parenting Conference and it has stuck with me for years. 

An archer's accuracy is largely impacted by how the arrow is released. If it is released correctly, the arrow should fly straight toward the target. If it is released incorrectly, the arrow will not fly straight.

It works the same with our kids. Throughout their lives they experience release points where we need to let them go. Whether it is learning to walk, a first sleepover, a driver's license or freshman year away at school, these are all release points where we, as parents, need to let our kids step out  and experience the fullness of life with all of it's ups and (in the case of learning to walk) downs.

How are you doing in releasing your kids?  How would they say you  are doing?