Wednesday, December 26, 2007
New Year's Resolutions Right Away...
If I can convince Mo, we'll be sitting in a booth at the Leesburg Restaurant by noon that day, so that we can break those other bothersome resolutions about healthier eating.
Clocking Out
Are You Destinized? is also clocking out until the new year but will be back strong in about a week with a whole slew of hip, random thoughts on God, good food and life experiences. Have a great week.
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
Early Christmas Morning
The sun has not even risen yet this Christmas morning, yet I find myself rising before my kids. I'm a little restless and I'm not sure if it is coming off of Destiny's Christmas Eve services last night or it is because of the cool gifts (Ipod Shuffle, Digital Camera and Video Camera all bought on Black Friday at 6am!) that I get to see my family tear into in about a half an hour....we told them, "No earlier than 7am!"
My hope for you this morning as you awaken, is that you would know the love of God that was demonstrated in the birth in a stable 2000 years ago.
Enjoy your family and friends today...and worry about the bills and the diet tomorrow.
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Christmas Weekend at Destiny
Sunday, December 23rd at 10am
Our final "Miracles" service, I get to unpack the poolside miracle found in John 5. We'll ask and answer the question "What is Jesus asking you to do?"
Monday, December 24th at 5 and 6:30
This is going to be great, there are some incredible surprises lined up and if Destiny's version of The Little Drummer Boy doesn't get your blood flowing, then you better stop by your doctor's office.
See you tomorrow and Monday...
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Bloglines Beta
At any given time, I am following 15-20 different blogs. They cover everything from the Red Sox to Church Leadership to Man vs. Wild. I feed off of this stuff and feel like I may never read a book again...(because most of my reading has been on a computer screen lately).
None of this addiction would be possible without the newest beta version of Bloglines. It is great and allows me to click through my selection quickly, throwing out what I don't want and holding onto what I do.
What tools do you use to keep up in the Blogosphere?
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Jack Johnson's Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer
This guy is so cool, he can make an old Gene Autry song with bad animation hip.
Consider a More Meaningful Gift This Year
Give a goat to a family in Haiti or an alpaca for a village in Peru and do this in the name of your cousin Larry. You will help to impact our world and will honor your cousin at the same time.
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Miracles Part III
Greg followed up this incredible story of marital resurrection with the account of Jesus bringing Lazarus back from the dead (John 11). Before today, I thought of this Lazarus-type miracle as one that I would never get to see, but when you apply it to the dead and dying areas of our lives, then I begin to expect to see God's resurrecting power within the details of everyday life.
Is there an area of your life that is needing a life-infusing miracle?
How are your relationships?
How are you coping with illness?
How is your career?
How is your family?
Let me encourage you to take 30 minutes out of your week and listen to Greg's message from today, but I must warn you, it may just set you up for a miracle.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
The Breakfast Special
Monday, December 10, 2007
My technologically-advanced family...
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Water to Wine
Thursday, December 6, 2007
The Great Cover Up
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
Strategery
Today we head down to Lake Anna to do some strategic planning for '08...
Here is what I'm looking forward to:
-time with the Destiny staff team, these folks are fun.
-inviting God to join us there.
-dreaming big about what God has in store for Destiny's future.
-developing systems to get us there.
-focus.
and
-s'mores around a big 'ol honkin' bon fire.
Here is what we will NOT be doing:
Monday, December 3, 2007
14th Birthdays
Sunday, December 2, 2007
I Believe in Miracles...
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
It's just around the corner...
Don't feel bad for the resorts, they have done their research and they know that if they hook our kids on winter sports during their fourth grade year, they will certainly regain any lost profit over the course of the following years. We got this pass for my son last year and it served us well! We will do it again in three years with my first grade daughter.
Think Snow.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Learning from Others
Tomorrow, I'm heading down to Fredericksburg to hang out with Jason Mueller of Salem Fields Community Church. I'm planning on pummeling him with questions about how to reach a community. The guys at Salem Fields have a real vision for the people who live around them and they will stop at nothing to reach them. They have even "doubled" their building footprint, but instead of creating some fancy schmancy sanctuary, they created a child care center and a cafe called Rubicon. That is refreshing to see a church serve it's community as opposed to hiding off in the shadows. I'll let you know what I learn.
I'm looking forward to meeting Jason but am also hoping that the "hot" sign is on at the Fredericksburg Krispy Kreme.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Making Preparations
-Family Meal Menus
-Travel Itineraries
-Shopping Lists
-Working Budget
-Christmas Decorating Strategy
-Work, Family and Neighborhood Party Prioritization
But, we often leave off the most important part of our Christmas season preparation plans...preparing our heart to experience Christ. Although Destiny does not officially observe Advent, I appreciate the more liturgical churches who begin the process of preparing to celebrate Jesus' birth four weeks before December 25th. That process helps our hearts to be ready to truly celebrate the birth of our Savior.
What will you do next month to help prepare yourself spiritually for Christmas? Leave a comment so that we can learn from each other...
Thursday, November 22, 2007
The Ideal Thanksgiving Plate
Actually, let me withdraw that comment about absolutes. When it comes to a perfect Thanksgiving plate, we all can agree that the perfect plate is an empty one. I hope I have an exta hole in my belt this year.
With praise and thanksgiving they sang to the LORD : "He is good; his love endures forever." Ezra 3:11
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Prayers of Thanksgiving
Well, after some thorough research, I want to offer you the following transcript from Ben Stiller's prayer in "Meet the Parents".
"Oh, dear God, thank you, you are such a good God to us. A kind and gentle and accommodating God, and we thank You oh sweet, sweet Lord of hosts for the smörgåsbord You have so aptly laid at our table this day, and each day, by day, day by day, by day oh dear Lord three things we pray to love Thee more dearly, to see Thee more clearly, to follow Thee more nearly, day, by day, by day. Amen."
Use only at your own discretion and please pass the mashed potatoes.
Monday, November 19, 2007
Feed the World with a Better Vocab
Sounds too simple, but you can do both at the same time... Check out Free Rice and read up on how big business advertising can actually make a difference in our world.
I will warn you though, this site is a little bit addicting. Enjoy.
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Highlight Reel
-The Red Carpet was rolled out.
-Holly and Gloria wrapped over 100 presents.
-We started up the service with the Loudoun County High School drum line.
-Nazarene Sect cranked us up...
-Lathan and Destiny Live! kept us going.
-Greg's message brought us home!
-South Street Under provided a great lunch.
-We gave out over $1000 of Bloom gift cards so that some families will now be able to enjoy a Thanksgiving meal.
and
-We recorded our record birthday attendance!
I'm so proud to be a part of this church!
Friday, November 16, 2007
Thursday, November 15, 2007
2 Valuable Parenting Tips
Last night, the electricity on my block went out, so we did what any other suburban family would do. We ordered pizza.
Then, after dinner, we hung out and talked by candlelight. We laughed and joked and even sang and danced. It was a regular variety show at our home for a few hours. If we had electricity, that same amount of time would have been spent channel surfing. I was convicted by that thought and will now work at bringing the Erickson Variety Hour back on a consistent basis.
2. Buy Christmas Gifts Wisely.
I laughed out loud when I saw this painful picture...
It reminds me that our gifts for our kids must be safe for them physically and appropriate for them emotionally and spiritually.
Let me encourage you (and myself) to not overspend on your kids and to not get them all that they ask for. That might be counterintuitive to your desires but probably fits right into your budget. It is more important for our kids to know about being satisfied with what they have than to have it all. When you do your buying, make sure you are getting just the right gift.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Culinary Question?
Monday, November 12, 2007
Changing our Focus
-Life is too short and hell is too hot, to play church.
-Stop recruiting people and start inviting people.
-Changing our language is the beginning of changing our culture.
-Service to our community needs to not only be a good experience for those who are being served but for those who are doing the serving.
-Jeff Clark is a great guy to hang with. He also has the obvious gifts of faith and perspective. (Is perspective even a spiritual gift?)
-I'm liking the look of this conference's host church building. I can't wait to see Destiny's sportsplex/daycare/arts center dream come to fruition.
I really enjoyed the breakout with Don Simmons. I'm coming home with great stuff for our leaders (and for me).
Sunday, November 11, 2007
External Focus
When I come back, I can't wait to meet with our Mission Team and begin thinking big about this!
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Turkey Trot
Today Clay and I tackled the Turkey Trot 5k together, and although the verse above is most often heard at weddings, I think it applies here as well. I want to make sure I'm doing as much as I can to help my kids succeed and for them to experience the truth of this verse. Today as we ran together, I, the much older guy, set the pace and brought the encouragement. Clay brought the youthful enthusiasm and together we had a great race.
The morning was topped off with french toast with friends at the White Castle. This place is a quality find hidden on 21st Street in Purcellville. Good quality eats...
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Quiet Times, Exercise, and Flossing
Today, I want to confess that I am planning on lying tomorrow morning. When the hygienist asks me if I floss regularly, I'll respond positively and she will know I'm lying because she'll be cleaning my teeth moments later. For some reason I still feel compelled to stretch the truth. I will continue to develop my theological position on preemptive confession, but I'm pretty sure it ain't going to help.
Finally, let me lay out the 3 components that make a great day for my wife: quiet time with God, exercise and flossing. According to her criteria, I've only had a handful of "great days".
What makes a great day for you?
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Technologically Advanced Devotions
I have realized that I don't turn the pages much anymore when I'm reading the Bible. Instead I'm clicking the mouse on Scripture Union, Bible Gateway, or YouVersion.
I'm interested, do you find yourself clicking or page turning during your devotions with God?
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
The Snooze Button
If you, like my daughter, are looking for more reasons for a good night's sleep, check out dumb little man.
Monday, November 5, 2007
Red Carpet Sunday
That, however is not the whole picture! We are also using this day as an opportunity to reach out. We are convinced that there are families that we know and love who are struggling through life, and could be blessed by Destiny Church. We are all reaching out to our friends and asking them to join us on the Red Carpet so that they can be a part of our celebration, enjoy lunch with us AND be blessed by some additional giving we have in store. We are not looking to expose anyone's hardships, but are hoping to walk alongside folks as they endure some tough times. Please email me if you know of someone who should be invited to Destiny's Red Carpet Sunday.
This is going to be an incredible day! Won't you consider joining us and bringing your friends along as well?
Great Weekend
but we also did this spiritually as we tackled the verse "You will never succeed in life if you try to hide your sins. Confess them and give them up; then God will show mercy to you." Proverbs 28:13.
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Men's Advance Kicks off Today
-Great Location...Liberty Mountain.
-Good Eats...some Road Food guys favor the Cozy Inn on the way up.
-Golf Clubs.
-Shot Guns.
-Wii and Xbox.
-Challenges from Buddy Marston.
-Orienteering (or simply getting lost in the woods at night).
-Cell phones turned off
and
-Did I mention good eats?
Pray for deep fellowship and open hearts for the 40+ guys heading out on this trip after work today. Thanks.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Keep the porch light on...
Halloween is arguably the most neighbor-centric holiday in our country. Tonight, almost all of your neighbors will stop by your front porch to say "Trick or Treat". Our three most celebrated Christian holidays are set up to avoid our neighbors. When we celebrate Easter it is Church-centered. Thanksgiving is usually with family and friends that we invite and Christmas is almost exclusively family. Halloween is our best shot.
So in an effort to get you out of your basement and onto your front porch meeting and greeting your neighbors, here are some tips for you tonight:
-Give out good candy, be generous.
-Engage with your neighbors and their kids.
-Don't be afraid to dress up...
-Remember names.
-Pray for the folks who are stopping by your house.
-Have fun.
and
-Keep the porch light on.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Get Smart 5k
(By the way, I'm definitely not a runner, but I do run so that I can eat what I want to eat...an exta bowl of ice cream equals another mile on the trail for me...it may not be medically sound thinking but that is my story and I'm sticking to it.)
Monday, October 29, 2007
From the mouths of babes...
"He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by Him all things were created..." Colossians 1:15-16. Or as my friends in the South say, "Jesus is God with skin on."
Emily also asked me "What if we are wrong?" I could have gone on and on about the philosophical idea of Pascal's Wager but decided to encourage her to keep seeking God and asking Him to not only show himself to her, but to also assure her that He is real.
That encouragement works not only for a first grader but also for each of us...
Friday, October 26, 2007
Into the Wild
-Lack of forgiveness and reconciliation can ruin our lives. Ron Franz, the main voice of truth in this film waxes philosophical when he says "When you forgive, you love, and when you love, God's light shines down on you."
-Books are usually better than the movie rendition that follows... I'd read John Krakauer's book Into the Wild a few years ago and it is a much better story line.
-Much of our culture's theology is communicated at the cineplex. Sean Penn would want us to embrace experience as the ultimate in life. Certain characters are seeking truth but the main theme unhealthily elevates experience.
-Great books should be embraced. The main character in this film spends a lot of time developing his philosophy of life through literature. I appreciated his reading of Tolstoy's Wise Thoughts for Everyday and his focus on the following quote: "I have lived through much and now I think I have found what is needed for happiness. A quiet, secluded life in the country with the possibility of being useful to people..." -Leo Tolstoy.
-Ultimately happiness is only real when we experience it together.
-Emile Hirsch looks frighteningly like a young Jack Black.
-God's creation is absolutely beautiful (from Virginia to Mexico to Alaska).
-Wouldn't recommend this movie (a little too long, a little too rated R, and a little too much overindulged angst), but it's depth does cause one to think...
Halfway There
By the way, I woke up this morning thinking about Fearless and am encouraged by the number of people at Destiny who are being challenged and encouraged by this Fall series. It seems we have touched a sensitive spot.
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Awkward Email Moments
Now, what am I supposed to do with that? Of course, I'd want to pray for a friend's brother who struggled through the biggest game of his professional career. But, he's pitching against the Red Sox....
I told him I'd pray, but that I'd also be praying for the Red Sox. Between me and you, I'll probably pray twice as much for Manny and the rest of the guys...does that make me a bad person? and what does that say about my theology of prayer?
I'm glad that God is in charge of the details and not me, I bet you are too.
Decisive Victory in Game 1
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Church on time...
We probably all have made the effort to be early for important an job interview.
My kids rush out the door every day to make it to the bus stop on time.
But,
Far too many of us wander in late for Church. I know, I know, "the kids spilled Cheerios in the car" or "the dog ate your car keys." I know it isn't easy to get to Church on time. But somehow, in the midst of all this other stuff, we make it to the other important engagements on time....
Let me encourage you to consider your time at Church as your most important appointment of the week. During this time you get to speak to and hear from the Creator of the Universe. So use your Iphone, or your dayplanner to remind you of this important rendezvous and do all that you can to be there ready for what God has for you. You just might be surprised by what God has to say to you during those precious first 10 minutes of worship.
See ya there early this Sunday.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Get Smart 5k
Now, on to the competition...
I'm not sure what the Vegas oddsmakers have on us, but Greg, Dan and I are all entered into this event. Each of us have gotten into running lately and have been "in training" for this event (mostly so we don't embarass ourselves). None of us are fast runners, but all of us should finish without incident. As a staff team, we'll see if we can all maintain a less than 10 minute mile pace. That may sound like slow motion Chariots of Fire running to you, but it feels like Olympic pace to us. If you have some time on Saturday morning, come on out and cheer us on!
Sunday, October 21, 2007
In a pit...
Sox made it, I didn't.
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Red Sox Nation
You may want to remember that the next time you visit...
Friday, October 19, 2007
Spiritual Food
Spiritually speaking, we often consume too many "empty" spiritual calories. A movie, a song or a tv sermon can all be used by God, but unless it contains truth based in Scripture, it will only be empty calories with no real spiritual value. What does your spiritual diet look like? Are you taking in enough of the right kind of calories?
"...by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God's word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil." Hebrews 5:12-14
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Do you know how to be destinized?
1. Stop by the Jump Start table and pick up your Jump Start materials which will help you get started with your personal relationship with God.
2. Sign up for a Starting Point group which promises to be a conversational environment where people can explore faith and experience community.
3. Follow up your short term Starting Point experience with a long term Life Group. These groups meet in homes and are safe places to go deeper with God.
4. Connect with a Ministry Team and serve God through your gifts.
You can jump in at any of these four steps, but if you are new to your faith, then start at step one and move your way on through to spiritual maturity. Is that a simple enough process?
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Dodgeball - A Spiritual Gift
It is important for us to get to know just how God has fashioned each of us individually. If you are looking to find your fit in a ministry, then you can look to your personality or your experiences or your skills, but one of the best ways to ensure a good fit is to evaluate your spiritual gifts. If you want help in determining your spiritual gift, just let me know and I'll help you through the process. Until then take a look at this insightful look into a little known spiritual gift...
Monday, October 15, 2007
Blog Action Day, II
Wedding Vows
Well, I had the opportunity to take that idea one step further with a couple last week. It was their 15th wedding anniversary and they decided to renew their vows together. The house was decorated, there was wedding cake, and their two children served as the maid of honor and the best man. It was a very simple ceremony but it was powerful as these two "re-upped" with one another. It reminded me that ceremonies are important as they create memories and offer a visual picture of a verbal commitment. I can't wait to be a part of their renewing of their vows on their 30th!
Blog Action Day
"The LORD God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it." Genesis 2:15.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Haunted Mountain Coasters
-If you want to learn about what your son is "into", let he and his buddies talk non-stop on a three hour trip.
-It is not necessarily good to have your son get scared at a haunted Mountain Coaster. (the coaster itself was very cool, it was the haunted house you had to walk through to get to it, that was not my best judgement call).
-One can gain about 5 pounds if one only eats sugary junk food for a period of 36 hours.
-10 year old boys know how to have fun and stay up late and still have energy at 7am.
-Take advantage of every single opportunity you have to have real spiritual conversations with your kids.